What Is a Lovey? A Guide to Baby Comfort Objects
A lovey is a small comfort blanket or soft object a baby bonds with and uses to self-soothe. Loveys can help with settling and independence as babies get older. Here is what to know, including how to use one safely. (General information, not medical advice.)
When can a baby use a lovey?
Many babies start bonding with a comfort object in the second half of the first year. Follow current safe-sleep guidance: keep loose items, including loveys, out of the crib for unsupervised sleep under 12 months, and use them for supervised comfort and play.
How to choose one
- Soft, breathable fabric — a natural fiber like organic cotton.
- Small and easy to hold for little hands.
- Washable — you will want a backup, and you will wash it often.
Tip: buy two
If your baby bonds with a lovey, a second identical one is a lifesaver for wash days and lost-lovey emergencies.
Soft organic cotton picks
- Organic Plush Lovey Security Blanket — a small, soft organic cotton comfort object.
- Blanket + Lovey — a blanket paired with a comfort lovey.
- Blanket & Lovey Gift Set — a matching set that makes an easy gift.
Frequently asked questions
What is a lovey?
A lovey is a small comfort blanket or soft toy a baby bonds with for self-soothing.
When is it safe for a baby to sleep with a lovey?
Follow current safe-sleep guidance. In general, keep loose items out of the crib for unsupervised sleep under 12 months and use a lovey for supervised comfort until then. If unsure, ask your pediatrician.
Should I buy two of the same lovey?
Yes, many parents keep a backup so there is always a clean one on hand.
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